Attracted to older women

We refer her as jeje, sometimes, kakak.

Being the most senior in the creative, she is no doubt, a big sister. Creatives who can survived telco clients, can technically do any accounts. She had six dealing with the Blue Telco.

Phoebe is one of the first senior creatives I met during my breakaway time from conventional agencies/design houses. She was with Ousted Brothers, when I went for an interview. Though I didn't get a stint there, over the time, she texted me of places that is looking.

Over here is the first time I worked with her.

A very nice lady indeed. Soft spoken. Easy to deal with. Rarely shows her temper. Attentive. Straightforward, yet constructive and thoughtful in her comments on works. A trait that many creatives do not have.

Two years passed. She's no longer with us. Will definitely miss the chats, jokes and "games" we played off-work. But we do keep in touch every now and then.

I was in the midst of knocking on new doors, and we caught up in Facebook. Got an interview with the CD there. Apparently, she was a buddy with the MD back when they were starting out! It's a small, advertising world. Nasib baik I didn't offend anyone before.

She was texting her MD-buddy. At the same time chatting with me.

"I don't mind pre-selling you 'cause you behaved well. Don't know why... I see you as a boy-boy..."

This really made me smile...

Did the title pop your eyes? Not in a sexual way, okay!

I find myself clinging closer to them. Being born the eldest, I've never had the chance to know how Bro feel - to have an older sibling looking after and protecting you. I've always wanted an elder sister.

I don't know... maybe it's my subconscious way of looking for security and comfort which I never had as a younger sibling.


  1. You miss out the most important parts ie:
    1) she single?
    2) she available?
    3) has she made a pass at you?
    4) have you made a pass at her?


  2. HAhAhAhAhAH... Dai Kar Je very imaginative hor? :P

    1. & 2. She's married leh!
    3. Not that I know of...
    4. Not that I... know of. Haha!

  3. It's good to have a tai kar jei to look over sai lo. :)

  4. Yealor, Jessie... too bad she left me... :(

  5. Older women are usually very clear and focused. They know what they want and it makes being with these ladies much easier for some guys. Few (very few) that i've met, once they had a relationship with an older lady they would always on a look for older ones.

    But (agree with me) most men, regardless what their age, are programmed to be attracted to younger women.

    You wudnt be seeing Huge Hefner hovering a 40 yo lady eventho he's over 80 now would ya?

  6. You're right, Dim. They know what they want.

    My first girlfriend is a year older than me. I guess it's not really the matter of age difference. It's the chemistry. Kan?

    Hugh owns the Playboy empire. He has a standard to look up to. Who would read his mag anymore if one sees him clinging to older Bunnies? Hahaha...